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Originally Posted by Badcopyinc
20 yrs of focusing on everyone else life problems and avoiding my own I can say personally when I have issues I usually seek to help others. This was my way of ignoring myself honestly.
The more healthy I am the more I welcome helping who I can but I'm not seeking it out like I would before. It shows up. I react try to help any way I can.
These days it seems I'm being placed in front of incredibly stubborn people.
I'll have to try this and see how it works. Love the idea of doing the healing in my head. Opposed to trying to get others heal themselves. Maybe combine the two.
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Yes, you seem to grasp what i'm saying. Many times i don't feel any need to intervene and let people sort out their own problems. Depending on the situation of course. If they ask and i feel i can help, absolutely.