I met one woman who use to be my girlfriend. She told me she was pregnant and I was the father. Then she looked at me and said that I wasn't but wished I was. She claimed she had to get an abortion.
I saw her later and she told me she wanted to carry the baby the longest time period she could. She considered her action to be illegal and had to hire a doctor to perform the abortion in secrecy.
Happiness is the result of an enlightened mind
whereas suffering is caused by a distorted mind.