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Originally Posted by TechnicGeek
Hello,
I noticed that when I was in a great mood (high vibrational state) and doing what I love, felt the purpose, I was not dependent on anything outside. I didn't need approval from others and didn't need significant other (I don't have one)
However things changed, I can no longer sustain doing what I love, I feel like I lost the purpose. Interestingly I started feeling the need of outside things that I mentioned above and need for significant other. Things that I could do well without. I think that being in a highly vibrational state and in a state of creation eliminates the need for those outside things.
Am I right? Maybe this is not same for everyone but I am sure some great poets, musicians, scientists etc. we so consumed by their work that they did not need anything else.
Also, there's a guy named Kyle Cease (you can find him on YouTube) who combined humour with self-improvement. He says that by feeling the need for significant other, we feel complete as a whole but we actually are already complete without significant other and once we do what we are supposed to here we will attract that significant other in our life.
What do you think? Does that make sense regarding my point about great artists, scientists etc. above?
Thanks.
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I think you need to find a balance between "being consumed by the things you love" and holding space in your life to be with someone else.
It is normal to want to have a significant other and outside things, after all we live in a physical world and through our relationship with others is how we grow and learn.
What is not normal is being totally consumed by doing "what you love" or the other opposite, totally dependant on external things to feel good.
Finding the balance is key.