Also, I don't believe in soul-mates. We are all brothers with the same father and no mother. "Real love", in the spirit, is unconditional and I believe is different than love in the physical. At least that is the way the Lord intended it to be.

Feeling attached to a certain soul is very common. It is the result of knowing this soul and having a strong bond with it in previous lives. Your current wife could've been your wife from a previous life, or even a really good friend. In the end, I believe we will all love everyone the same.

One thing that is interesting is when someone is so in love with someone else, but that other someone has no interest at all in that person. People even commit suicide because they cant deal with the pain of that other person not carring about them.