People have their rules and expect everyone else to live by them. Live by your own rules and worry not what others think. There is nothing wrong with you. It was cruel what your aunt said and if I was her sister or sister-in-law, your mother, I may have punched her in the nose. But it is her anger at the death of her daughter that strikes out at you. It isn't personal. I guess if I were you I would ask why you felt compelled to make this thread because it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks (or what you wear). It only matters what you think (and want to wear). The rest is someone else's rules.
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