do we have a choice? from what i have been taught, only if we can face ourselves after death, if not, then its back to the world again. if we can face ourselves then we will go back to the source with our identity. if we are generally a good person and cant, you are reborn. if you are a negative person and cant, it is oblivion for you, no identity and in the source. if you are a negative person who decides to face yourself, you will be reborn.