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Originally Posted by amissaanima
But everyone is not the same. It isn't that easy and you know it. There can be a lot of heartache and and/or extreme emotions, even when they are good emotions it can be hard for some to deal with.
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Trust me I've relapsed millions of times. I ruined a lot of relationship because of my addictions, both romantic and platonic. My TF says she left me because of my alcoholism, but I quit drinking for the relationship to flourish and not turn just like the previous past ones. I never drank around her, and ironically she still left. Now did I drink after she left ran with no excuses ? Damn right I did. Theres more to my long story but Im sick of telling it haha. My TF story is so fixable and not so complicated like nearly the rest of you. She lives an hour away, theres only a 1 year age difference and we both don't have kids and are not married. Yet she chooses to run. That's ok, I don't mind being alone and polygamous while I'm still young and single. Meanwhile I'm meeting soul connections left and right. I just say to myself, "keep em coming universe" they are a very good distraction from the whole TF thing.