I can attest that being hyper focused on all that is wrong only serves to drag you down. You obviously love your husband but do remember you are not responsible for him either. You are showing him the way merely by your example. You need not do more unless he specifically asks you for something. It sounds like you have too much on your plate so do indeed go out and have some fun. Laugh a little and trust that there will be a light at the end of the tunnel. You are doing much better than you realize. Hugs.
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