It would have me shaken up too! I do know aggressive men that do not act the same towards women.
I had a neighbor like yours for a very long time and I avoided him as much as I could, including not BBQ'ing when he was around so I would not invoke his wrath.
You are no way responsible for his outcome, if anything, may be you subconsciously knew his attitude was putting himself in danger.
I recently lost a young relative, yes, it does make us think doesn't it?
(((hugs)))
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