Gerrygirl, so glad that you are feeling more positive... Just keep concentrating on working on yourself, the stronger you are the more help you can be to others if that is what you want....
And remember, when something negative is said to you, consider the source from which it comes....Is it coming from a place of Love or Hate????

You can always turn negative comments into positive ones, if someone says 'you are worthless' then you really need to remove yourself from that person, however, take it as an oppertunity to work on your own self worth for example, because if there is any part of you that believes the negative comment then of course thats something you need to work on!

Best Wishes
SoulSparkles