As you said, that is YOU, not the millions of people who find it helpful in raising their children. I am not one of those millions, but I can see how it is helpful and so much better than labeling a child ADHD or ODD and loading them down with mood stabilizers and anti-psychotics. Perhaps you would prefer a child to carry that label through school than to have the parent approach it from a more spiritual aspect and use the category of a 'rainbow/crystal/indigo/starseed/ascender/blue ray/ and to use that as a guidance tool. Because basically that is what it is ; it is a tool, just as ADHD is a tool to help teachers/staff/doctors/family know how to care for a child