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Originally Posted by Brucely
Its not about the relationship. Im asking if someone close to you could unwittingly ruin your chances at oppurtunities because it goes against what they want?
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It's always the relationship, but then I guess we have different definitions.
You're the only one who can unwittingly ruin your chances of opportunities, they're already ruined if you move forward with that mindset. If you are empowered what they want will have no affect on you, it only has an effect if you allow it. If you can find the strength to overcome their effect on your perceptions - which is what this is all about - then they have no power over you. You give them that power over you, they don't have it unless you relinquish it and if you're asking this question then you're already in trouble.
Find the strength to Live your Life on your terms, that only comes from within you.