Lolly,
I found this forum because I was searching for answers related to similar experiences. Not exactly- but very similar.
It's funny. Almost every thread that I see and think "That is exactly what I have questions/experiences about!"- I click on it and it's YOU.
Apparently, we are both dealing with a similar situation right now and are searching for answers.
At least we know we are not alone in this!
Please let me know how it has progressed for you so far.
Thank you!
-Lauren