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well, the secrets might be buried, but if their effects are continuing then they
aren't really dead. the idea of you being choked/suffocated would effectively
prevent you from speech... which is why i'd thought that it was 'retribution'
for something out of the past. maybe your aunt had felt herself prevented
from expressing her hurts or desires? and maybe she'd placed the blame for
that on your parents? to "make peace with it" might require you to be open
to hearing some complaints from out of the past [probably something you've
had no hand in].
i'm hopeful that all will work out for you in this matter. it may be that you
need to sever all ties with that side of your family, if they're determined to
cause you harm and seemingly have no rationale behind that.
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