This is how I feel too. When we first started talking he did express his love. Then we had a little rough moment 3 months later (communication issues) and he stopped talking to me. (He got mad) So, I left him alone after a couple of weeks. Then after several months he contacted me and we began talking. When I started to open up again, he told me he was uncomfortable with my feelings towards him (as if he had never said he loved me) and that he was not insterested in a relationship with me. So, I can only take him at his words as well and although I feel like he still loves me just as much as I love him, I can't force him to tell me. :-(