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Originally Posted by OEN34
Agree.
I'd probably also subtly remind him that he was controlling towards you back in the day by demanding all male friends were refrained from being contacted and ask him what his thoughts are on this.
Ultimately, there's a reason he's speaking to her, and that needs investigating and dealing with appropriately, IMO.
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Agreed on both points, the OP is perfectly within her rights to feel aggrieved, imo, particularly given that the guy made her delete her male contacts.
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Originally Posted by olhosdeamendoa
Anyone who has self-respect and healthy boundaries would never never accept to be in this kind of relationship.
Actually, to me, that is not even a relationship. In a relationship there is respect, love, care, trust.
This one here is merely a toxic situation that makes me sick to my stomach. But sometimes in life we have to be in situations where you break our head open in order to learn to love ourselves.
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Yep, agree entirely.