I love the way EFT has worked for me this year in releasing issues such as simple angers and hurts. Where I'm having trouble though is "releasing" complicated & old core feelings of co-dependency & feeling responsible for one of my parents from my childhood onwards, esp. now that that same parent actually DOES need me in old age!

My attemtps at EFT work somehow feels like abandoning them and my inner mind (reptilian or primal level?) is fighting it with a "NO I can't tap this, I can't do this, it's not right." I get memory images of that parent looking sad, bereft, and crestfallen even. Though I did have a click moment when the FASTER EFT guy Robert Smith said in a throwaway line "just send them love." I guess the trick is to allow the love to remain, while letting everything else go?

Has anyone else worked this angle w/ EFT? I've been doing a lot of google searchs for tapping on this issue but so far, no hits to help with the aiming of the tapping statements. Am a bit at a loss!

Thanks for any input.