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Old 21-10-2017, 06:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Kerubiel
Is making someone love you wrong? I mean we all intend to be loved right? We all intend to be wanted. I can command love and make women fall in love with me. Make them want me. I can say it like a jedi knight. YOU WILL LOVE ME! I mean a command is merely will power focused. Is there something wrong with willing/intending love?


Hi Kerubiel,

Nothing "wrong" with intending love.
Being open to accepting and giving love can be very healthy in my view.

The question that comes to mind is; Is it a physical thing or a deeper heartfelt thing?

Meaning, is what being termed "love" a desire to have a physical relationship or a deeper personal relationship?

To say, one is able to will another, to me, implies an undercurrent to have control.
Can you control how another may feel about you?
Is such focus intending love to flow freely or is it intending controlling how the "love" is thought or desired to be?

A deep relationship takes time and patience to develop. It's a two way street.

If your intentions are pure, then open yourself up to allowing the love to flow and give it time to grow for both in the relationship. Is the advice I'll leave.
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