There are at least as many definitions/concepts of love as there are people as some talk about different kinds of love. Honestly, this forum has deterred me from using the word, favouring something more specific: passion, yearning, adoration, at rest with someone, romantic excitement, lust; with unconditional love being the exception, a supremacy. I worked out that most emotions around "love" come from basic drives being suppressed holding someone back from something/ someone they want: turns into yearning.
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