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This is really interesting I can definitely see both sides here, yes you do need to love yourself to be able to love another but there is also truth in what Tuesday is saying.
Sometimes we go through some really bad times in life, without someone there who truly loves you and shows compassion things could become really bad. If you are in a healthy and loving relationship then there is nothing bad about this, we all need a little help sometimes.
The problem stems from when we are completely attached and dependant on another, we control and possess rather than accept and encourage.
If we go down the route of being so involved in our own selves and detached from the other then it would also be impossible to have a positive relationship with another.
I see my relationship as a partnership between two individuals. Yes there are times we don't agree but we talk and compromise.
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