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Thanks for sharing
This sounds a lot like my NDE...
Except I think it is what you said it was, you had an OBE and got to see your best friend.
I totally understand what you mean by saying you were a "set of eye balls" or just consciousness. That's exactly what it felt like for me, too.
It seems to me, a lot of what controls where we go after we die, is our feelings and thoughts. There seems to be an energetic frequency we all are tied to based off these two things...thoughts and feelings.
After reading your experience, my guess is that your best mate might have had a lot of issues he wasn't facing head on. That's probably why he drank a lot, did drugs, and womanized. He was escaping his problems, or past issues he didn't want to deal with, but was still affecting him. It seems his way of coping with "life" But I don't think it was really who he was.
From what I learned, purgatory is kind of a place where we go to confront those issues, and to let them go....before we can move on. He still has a lot of demons to face, and to let go of.
Life is all about learning, facing issues, falling, getting knocked down, getting back up, dusting off....and moving forward, scars and all.
The best way to cope, is being honest with ourselves. So many of us don't want to see things, or face things that upset us. That's where the destructive tendencies come on.
I, personally don't think your friend is being punished for his drinking, sex or drugs....that karma will come back through reincarnation.
I believe he is in a place of rest, so that he can be think about the problems he had, and to learn to face them, and let them go. It's also a place where he will learn who he is, and to be honest with himself. He has no choice there, but to be honest with himself. That is the place he created for himself, after life here. Because there, he will be alone, with himself and his thoughts until he does. It's a place where he will learn who he really is.That is where he will be until he confronts his issues, accepts it, and is able to move on...to another life, existence, place....wherever his soul chooses to go for its next experience, to be the person he will become.
Your friend isn't alone, we all have apart of your friend inside us. We all have issues, we all have the same kinds of destructive tendencies...it's how honest we are with ourselves, that determines the outcome of how we choose to cope. I learned that through my own NDE (a drug and alcohol overdose in my 20s) where I was escaping from really, myself. I didn't want to deal with life, or all the problems that come with it. But really, that's what we are here for. It's why we came...we signed up for this.
Anyways, I appreciate you posting this story, it brings back memories from my own. Thanks again.
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