[Jyotir]

Originally Posted by sky123

I see non-duality as referring to the absence of separation not the realization of oneness... it's more about the falsehood of separation.

It's equivalent, the same result - when realized - although in and through 2 different paths/approaches - and this is why so much confusion (and necessity to negate what is not one's personal preference).

What you describe in your quote above are 2 approaches:

"absence of separation" = the 'Neti-neti' path. (not this not that)

"realization of oneness" = the 'iti-iti' path (all is Brahman)

Its the same.
The same result.
The same realization.
by Different means.
In fact, be bold and switch what comes after the =.
No difference.

~ J