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Old 08-12-2012, 08:05 AM
Belle Belle is offline
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There are a lot of reasons why someone might be sad when someone passes.

Firstly, you will miss the person. My father died 6 months ago (this weekend) and I miss him with a passion - the fact that he had been in a home for 3 years with dementia and hardly had anything to say is irrelevant. I keep seeing things or hearing things and I think "i must tell dad, it would make him laugh" and then I remember he is gone. It's very strange, I had been so used to him being "gone" with his dementia and everything has shifted since.

Then, there is the psychic level. Energies all shift when someone passes and that takes a massive adjustment which are out of your control - and that is rough. There is also the presence of recently deceased which can be over-whelming. When dad died, I just knew so much that he was in the room with me and I would just be bewildered.

But, that's just my experience.
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