There are no lessons? only my opinion according to my life.

I beg to differ about there are no lessons, life is full of them( well it was for me)
and you cant unlearn something until you first learn what you have to unlearn?? for yourself that brings us to how to do something in a better way, more positive way or different way that will bring us to a better outcome for ourselves.

From experiences, come our learning (if we choose)(it is up to us) for what serves us a purpose in each new life time we have here.

We come here each life time we are meant to have to experience every aspect of
,life we learn many things (if we choose to do so,)and we will have the necessary life times we need until we evolve into a higher conciousness of then spiritual learning and we need not come back to the earth plane for earth plane lessons.

Life gives us the experiences we need to learn from that we already have chosen before we came here for each lifetime we may have.

I wouldnt be the person i am today if i had not learned valuable lessons about myself, others and of life, i couldnt be more than i was without gaining the wisdom from the experiences i have had.

I dont see how learning valuable lessons (that we have chosen) is being lazy or foolish that doesnt make sense( to me anyway) i would be foolish within myself to go on as i was before i learned i can do things in a better or different way for myself, and that is why we have certain experiences, they are all for a purpose and reason, a reason that we have chosen to learn from.
"Learning the right stuff"? to get rid of the old outdated way,we can only do that from the necessary experiences and lessons we choose to learn ,to kick the outdated in the butt allowing ourselves to move on into a better energy for yourself knowing you can do things, handle things and create a better and more positive way of living for yourself and with that knowledge from the experiences that were necessary for you to have.

How do we know we can be better, for ourselves and be better within ourselves unless we experience what wasnt for our highest good?
We learn to do that for ourselves, we self teach our selves, if we want to, it is always our choice. Our feelings are a big part of our learning, our feelings are our truth our soul truth, and they allow us to feel if we need to change something about ourselves or a situation that will be better and see us progress from making any necessary changes we need to about ourselves.

Progress in life for the better for ourselves begings with us, and the experiences we have to learn from for that purpose ( if we choose.)

We dont come here knowing what lessons we have chosen,straight away it is a process, we go through with different expereinces we have according to what we have chosen in this life time as individuals to learn, not the past but now for our progress in this life time now.

Some souls will keep on repeating the same over and over, and that is their choice, the universe will keep shoving that lesson for them in their face in many ways hoping they will see what they need to do for themselves so their lives can be better, they can be better, and do better for themselves in this life time, our happiness or unhappiness begins with us, so does our life here, we each have our little suitcases of baggage to carry here, but it is how we learn that lightens our baggage so we ourselves can become lighter from learning the many valuable lesson and experiences life has to offer us in the here and now. (it is always our choice here how we learn, if we want to learn, and how long we take to learn in the way we have chosen for ourselves as individuals.

I have learned that when i have been able to handle a situation for myself in a better more positive empowering way in which i have been in total control of ,then i know i have made progress for myself in learning and gaining valuable wisdom from some of the experiences i have chosen for myself to learn in this lifetime and it feels good to know you have seen the lesson about yourself and what you have needed to change or tap into for a greater understanding of that lesson and learning.

I think life is still our greatest teacher, it always amazes me how much we learn as we go along our journey here and how much there is to learn in this big world i wish i knew some of the things i know now about myself and of life years ago my life would have been so much easier lol. maybe another lifetime ?


Love and light Shaya