So JB, have you
anything you care to share regarding your own challenges and obstructions to manifesting lovingkindness? Particularly with those situations where you cannot or prefer not to disengage (parents, children, close family & friends). If not, no worries...
Peace & blessings
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Sure.
I stay very present with what is and can seperate the external from myself. How they behave is not about my loving kindness in me. I see through loving kindness eyes. It’s been as I’ve mentioned, reflecting deeper if I’m still reacting to the external. To let all threads attached to others behaviours go in me. I don’t purposely trying to be loving kindness. I’m just being myself. I’m still wondering why you would be striving for something towards your blocks externally, when all blocks and struggles are ones own in the face of others. Reactions mean I am reacting to something of the other as myself. So what part of you are you struggling with in you through your father? If you don’t mind me asking.? One only has to sit close their eyes and drop into their being and listen to that answer arising in truth of you. Everything is within you for the external struggles. I’ve made peace in me with all family struggles against me, reacting in me. It’s been a conscious walk and direct experience to face myself, my hurt, my anger, my lack..whatever opens in me more complete back to peace in me as I am. My true nature is loving kindness. I walk as that. I don’t have to force being myself, it’s effortless. I know myself. I like myself. It’s easy to just be myself now.
Many still realising their true nature are still practicing the teachings to become them. I feel my true nature is realized in me, through the work I’ve done. As I shared actualisation for me is not putting into practice but just being what I now can be as all true nature attributes include. Life is all so different, everyone is unique. It’s only about how I move in the world as I am and am aware of as myself. In this way I meet life where life is and just respond as Myself moment to moment. Just being me..:)
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