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Originally Posted by Eyenight
You could let him do the first step! I mean, HE should ask you out for coffee!
I understand your desire to clarify this bond, but considering that he is a professor at your college and is much older, i would choose a less direct approach. Let him see that you have a romantic interest in him but don't put yourself in a difficult position. Protect yourself
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Hmm yeah, I see what you're saying. I know he is probably going to wait for me to initiate contact --I KNOW he doesn't want to be a Creepy Old Man (he's not!). Still, I think I may ask him out to coffee without specifying it as a date, and see where the chemistry takes us.
It's just so hard to not want to take charge, you know? I'm such an Aries, haha. If anything, this union is teaching me patience, which I had previously vowed to never learn. Seriously. I always charge headfirst into bonds with people, and they tend to burn or snuff out. Not this time, not this time.