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Old 19-02-2018, 08:05 AM
OEN34 OEN34 is offline
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Two options IMO:

1) If it is that draining and you are convinced it isn't a psychological issue causing these symptoms, then end the relationship and be free from it.

2) Continue with the relationship but try even harder to work on yourself adapting to the symptoms.

On one hand you're saying the relationship is literally killing you slowly (quote), yet on the other you're saying you cannot end the relationship.

What gives? You can't have your cake and eat it.

He might be the most kind, gentle and loving person in the world, but if the energy isn't matched and it's causing you issues to the point you're miserable and drained around him, then the answer is very clear IMO.

Alternatively, look at diet, water consumption, vitamins and minerals, adequate rest etc.
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