This is just one of my many crazy theories. As long as there are mysteries in life, I like to let my imagination run wild
What if one of the biggest life secrets is that we all are already one with our most loved one? Healthy self love is necessary for having healthy love for others and being two, three or more in one (for example holy trinity) is pretty common thing in countless religions. That our personal drama with earthly relationships is just a stage play in a divine comedy we somehow though that would be hilarious to play. That everything we are so desperately looking for is inside us and is part of us the whole time. We just cant know that while we are in flesh so we dont ruin the surprise for ourselves that awaits us on the other side
