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everyone needs life experience good and bad and they are perfect to be experienced in relations with others. This may open his eyes. believe me, itf its true, its mean to be. some people need really bad experiences to snap them out of it. Some need to hit total rock bottom before they can climb back up. It can take a major shaking from a toxic relationship/marriage to wake people up to what they actually need and want. At first, every relationship is awesome....until..........so let him have this, if its true, and not that you have a choice where he cant. He may not have been able to smash through his smoke screens people place before him if he were with you, as in, he may not have had enough 'growth' of life experience had he remained with you. He may not have been able to understand certain situations and life issues had he remained with you. these other people will teach him things about himself. Im sorry though, in compassion toward you, i know it's hurtful. Just wish him well and hope for him that he stays strong and doesn't break and fall into ego despair.
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