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Originally Posted by jro5139
Yes every person that I have liked or had a feeling about since tf has been much less intense.
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I do not talk about "every person", since I do not feel special connections to everyone I happen to meet.
The way I see it, you can know people for a long time and grow to like them maybe, but if there is that special connection to someone, you feel different from the start. You don't need time or contact to go get to like this person.
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Originally Posted by jro5139
I see you say he is married, my advice then would be to walk away and do not have any more contact (if you can). If it's less intense than it should fade much easier than a tf. Do you feel it could fade easier? All of the "interests" I have had since tf seem to fade away pretty easily.
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I don't want to interfere with his relationship, but since he is a colleage I have to deal with him on an alomost daily basis.
But thats ok. It's nothing personal. I like being around him and with him thats the same, as far as I can tell.