Cafedoc123 I just wanted to say that you are more evolved than you know. Your wife is VERY lucky to have someone understand and deal with this. IF what happened to me was this type of thing..it is now in permanent limbo. The more I look at myself, the more I realize this was about MY growth. At least for me. I know that sounds kind of narcissistic. But, no. Like I said, I'm not sure what on earth this "connection" I feel is...but, it does rock your world. Oh how I wish during the worst part of that time I would have had a husband like you. I could have NEVER told him. That is a story in itself that I do not wish to share. But, it sounds like whatever happens you two will be honest and supportive to each other. That is GOLD in my book. Good luck to you, your wife and children. And just remember, if you truly love someone in any capacity, all you want is for them to be happy.
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