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I have experienced that all over the course of...13 years now that we've known each other. We've been apart for 11 of those. Both of us have our own lives, our own families. To be honest, we haven't spoken in almost as many years as we've been apart, but we're still connected. The truth is, the anxiety could be coming from anywhere. I've gone through feeling his feelings, feeling my feelings, feeling enmeshed, feeling blocked off, actively trying to block. I've found the best thing to do is just experience the moment and move forward. In other words, feelings are just feelings. They don't necessarily mean you're going to reunite or that he's miserable or anything else. You could make yourself crazy agonizing over why he may be feeling a certain way or why you feel a certain way. But in the end, not much ever changes. But then, I truly believe that reunion has very little to do with physically being together in this living lifetime.
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