I have reached out to him with an email last fall but only got a couple of lines back from him casually telling me how busy he is with work, and then when I suggested we get together for drinks or coffee he didn't reply. Then on New Year's I sent a text wishing him a happy new year with no reply. If it wasn't for the fact one of his family members told me how he has become a hermit so to speak and has talked about me, I would think he's just not into me. I feel there's nothing I can do. I have extended the olive branch, but he won't accept it. So I feel because nothing has happened, we're both still learning whatever lessons that need learning and the universe will decide when it's right. Yes, I want to phone him or text him, but how much is enough if he still is too afraid to reply? And then once again my ego gets bruised if there's no response......I'm working on that one :p