No it's not a wishful thinking thing. I had this really happend with my x husband. He morphed into my dream man to a good extent, but I had to dump him and we both dumped one another over and over until we well, maybe both morphed into what the other wanted. And in this one, well I've dumped this guy big time now. He's 10x worse than my 1st x. I mean drunk, crazy, cheater, and I'm MAD As heck and will not stand for the REAL man this one is in my current reality. I will not even talk to him now.
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