Be careful with this guy. You seem to have already guessed - he's projecting his own needs onto you. It borders on obsession and probably stems from his very young life: disinterested, unpredictable or abusive parents. Aggressiveness probably comes into it too, hence the challenge to control. Honestly? He needs some therapy.

If I were plagued by a guy like this I'd tell him no and if he persisted probably report him
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