i'm 41 now but when i was around 35, i started not being able to sense my husband past 40.....i just cannot "feel" him. his health worries me, he was diagnosed with diabetes 5 years ago and in the last year has rapidly lost weight. this is a guy who was over 300 lbs, wore a size 50 waist pants, and a 3xl tall shirt.......he is now in a 42 and they still hang on him and all of his shirts go to his knees!!!!

he turns 40 on January 19th next year......