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Originally Posted by Nuriko
I'm actually 28, so I have no real reason to expect death other than the fact that I've experienced it a few times through the older generation of my family. I think it might be more of a.. paranormal aspect going through my head. My grandmother visits me occasionally, but I don't think she has any reason to other than to just show up. Why? Why her and not my other deceased relatives? Will I be waiting on my husband on the other side for him to pass? Will he be waiting for me? Are my parents gonna be popping in and out of my life from the other side whenever they do pass? What if nothing even happens? Like.. I believe our souls go somewhere, but what if I'm wrong and it's just completely blank.. darkness? Eep. Why it's been on my mind lately, and out of no where really, is what's making me question it.
I think it's just questions like this. Afterlife kinda things, now that I think about it. Things like this just keep me up at night and it will sometimes make me feel uncomfortable. Then I stay up all night googling what others reactions were to seeing the spirit of their deceased relatives. My brain wanders too much.
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Hi Nuriko,
My feeling is it is quite natural to ponder these things. Many young people don't bother to, but it is in your mind, and there is no harm in that, so long as you are not filled with dark thoughts and endless worry about that eventual transition!
I do think there is certainly nothing 'morbid' about considering our own transition, and embracing that surety and giving it some thought.
When the time comes for you to transition, then there is really no such thing as 'an untimely death' to the Soul and Spirit. This is almost impossible to see from this perspective but will be seen and appreciated when you have crossed, and adjusted. Your perspective will be so vastly different you can hardly envision that while in a physical body.
It's not unusual to feel contact with maybe one or two family members but not all. That can be hard to understand, as they no doubt loved you and you loved them. There are only one or two who remain in touch with me, for instance, and some whom I know loved me, haven't been in direct contact at all! But part of that may be my own attunement to them.
You will probably find, when you cross, that there are great bonds of love with many who have shown up in your life. Even though you may not have sensed their spiritual 'visits' since they passed.
And with anyone you don't feel particularly connected with, you may see how they played a part in your life, and a certain friendship may be appreciated -far more than it is known while here. Or on the other hand, you may smile and bless them, and then go your separate ways.
With anyone with whom you don't want to perpetuate a connection, well, they won't be around you. Although you may see the purpose for their appearance in your life.
There actually is no death. Only transition.