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Dear PeaceLilly
Sorry for your loss.
This is a common type of obsession, one from several types.
Yes this grieving, stablish a connection with the deceased spirit and block him of doing several things, strenghning the pain he feels for those who remained in this side. Everybody loses during this process.
A very simple analogy wold be you (spirit) at work receiving phone calls all the time from your mother (incarnated) telling her problems again and again. You cannot concetrate in your job and become improductive.
They must continue their life, besides the pain, they must pray for the deceased, mentalizing that he is fine, all relatives (from the other side) are taking very good care of him and soon he will be healed.
More details ypou can find at THe Mediun´s Book from Allan Kardec, chapter XXIII ( you can freely download pdf file from internet)
Good study!
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