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ParanoidHippie it does not matter whether he's nuts or gentle, or compassionate or a stalker. The only thing that matters here is that he's creeping you out. You have every right to not want him (or anyone else) trying to weasel their way into your life.
If you haven't already done so, tell him you are not interested. If he persists, offer to report him to the authorities. If you still feel fearful, get a canister of tear gas to carry with you. You should never be afraid to go about your own life because someone thinks you should be with them.
If he is a rational human being, he'll back off. If he doesn't back off, he probably isn't all that rational. Stand your ground, and reclaim your power from him. He's stolen that; that's why you feel fearful. You don't feel in control of your own life.
I understand the feeling. Someone trying to get too close is scary. Keep your boundaries and do not let him control your life.
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