[Ziusudra]

Our souls pick the family. - not your human mind.
But pick is not the right word.
It is a soul agreement between souls well before incarnations.- for all sides.

From human mind, it is difficult to comprehend why one would pick such parent (s).
But human mind did not pick it.
Soul agreement is complex. These agreement may reach back to its origin.
Every human is not the star of its own life scenario. Most often, we are just an extra and fallout for the other ones to learn and to experience. Nonetheless, our souls agree to be in that roles.