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Originally Posted by Brucely
Its not about the relationship. Im asking if someone close to you could unwittingly ruin your chances at oppurtunities because it goes against what they want?
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When I read that I wonder if you're struggling with duty to dad verses
claiming /owning your chances/opportunities.
What does
what your father wants have to do with any of your chances/opportunities?
If they're
your chances/opportunities - who is responsible for them?
How could what your dad wants be related in any way? Unless you're making it related by association. "
Well, he's my dad and he doesn't want that (even though it's my life) so yada yada..." So what. So your chances/opportunities are going against what he wants. AND?
Too bad, Dad. This is my life. You're my dad, but this is MY life. And I'm not going to let you combine them. Dad. My life. Two separate things. You're in my life Dad, but you're not my life. Still love ya just as much.
Something for you both to think about...
Unless I'm wrong about the whole thing. In that case - never mind.
:)