hi i've heard that birthmarks are linked to past lives. I have quite a big one on my bum. And i have phobias of shirts, and buttons. I am bi so could have been a man in one of my lives. How can i discover who i was? And is it true some of our family will be close too us in our next lives? My mum and me are too alike, we have the same day dreams, and we look very alike, could we of known each other forever??? I'd love too know more about reincarnation.