For myself I made a list of qualities I wanted in a relationship in a partner and I was very specific. As I repeated out loud I affirmed them to myself in the present tense rather then saying I want this that and that in a relationship I said, My so and so is tall athletic loving kind sweet honest funny. I was visiting my family in Canada at the time so I went into the back field, as I walked around the field I repeated the Affirmations out loud I even said my so and so was waiting for me back in California. The funny thing about this was that I started to get to know this one person online while I was still in Canada then when I flew back to California they were the first one that I spent time with when I got home.