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Old 21-04-2019, 07:03 AM
greenmxnz greenmxnz is offline
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My advice to you sounds completely cliche, but only because it’s worked for many. Start a journey in which you focus completely on yourself. I believe there’s 6 steps.

1. Be brutally honest with yourself.
2. Isolate yourself from the dating world until the process is done.
3. Abstain from sex.
4. Notice unhealthy addictions and severe them
5. Acknowledge the positive attributes of yourself and personality
6. Create a space in which you can analyze your mentality.

With these steps, you will be able to find yourself and be comfortable with loneliness, rejection, and unfulfilled relationships. I’m currently working on that myself. I’ve just lost the love of my life, and both of us agreed to move on. It was hard.

Yet, your immense urge to find a cure for this pain might be the exact problem. Have you ever allowed yourself to sit in these emotions? Your external condition may be solid, but your internal condition is shattered.
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