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Originally Posted by Bjc1224788
There's nothing that can be done with my mother in law. Trust me we know all about it. Until she's a harm to herself or others.she refuses any help or medication.
As for the flame, I've been told that what I'm doing is having an emotional affair which isn't fair to my wife. My feelings are so strong for this woman. Isn't seperation part of the process ? She needs time on her own to grow ?
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I don't subscribe to the "stages." They are people in union who never separated.
Your feelings may be more intense because other parts of your life ate not working. Ficus on THAT and you will see/to feel what is really there.
Dumping someone because you decline to set boundaries is not the most caring thing you can do. I suggested an alternative...