Hah!
I have had just the opposite problem.
Why don’t I look like – what I strongly identify with?
So, similar to transgender persons, - as a child - I felt deeply, that I had been born into
a wrong body – for sure!!!
My gran, my mother, my sister, my best friend was one of these “black Mesolithic (Cheddar Man dna) Euro … Lapps”, the Proto-Skolts, and I next to her looked like an “Aryan, Germanic – white superiority” poster child (because gran married this Germanic/Viking-lineage Swede, and I inherited his looks).
https://ibb.co/ChtwjMX
It is still quite curious, how Germans, especially the older folk, immediately see me as a “comfort zone, a psychological security blanket”….. or folks subscribing to “White Supremacy” immediately assume I must be in agreement with their sickest racist jokes.
It is only South Sea islanders, PNGs and Oz-Aboriginals that have been able to see beyond the veil of appearances.
So what does that tell you?
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