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Old 08-04-2019, 03:24 AM
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Originally Posted by ocean breeze
Not me. I would first have to see something wrong in not caring, and i don't. The less i care the more relaxed and liberated i feel. Too much internal pressure we place on ourselves and others that one "should" care. So when we don't, we often feel guilty, like there is something wrong with us for not caring. So we try to look for some artificial, made up reason to care. Hence, even when we say we care its often fake. It becomes more of a "should" than something true.

Today you don't care. Who knows maybe tomorrow you'll care. Which do you place more importance on: the act of caring or authenticity?
what if really do care but you don't want to but can't help but to care. Example. I care but why the hell should I. It's a crazy chain of events that started this way of thinking. It's nothing anyone can do anything about. Most would laugh if I told them what it actually is. But this is one of the toughest things I felt with because it really is no body's fault.
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