Hello, Animus27.

Welcome.
This maybe too simplistic a responce.
It is my opinion that The Universe is 'full' of Humans.
Wherever there is a planet as beautiful and nurturing as Earth, we will find the same scope of life that we have here (albeit 'varied'..off topic).

My personal belief is that, We as all Life are, The Onmipresent Divine incarnate. Our purpose is to maintain Eternal Love and proser into Infinity...
I voted 'Panentheism' over 'Patheism', predominantly because, I believe we can see through time.

The Divine cares for Us All, fostering and maintaining Life. If you feel uncared for, that you don't care for others or they are not cared for, I suggest that you distinguish between; evil external interference and Gods internal radiant expression of Love & Light.
We are afforded a great deal of liberty by Divinity. Choices we make and actions we take have a butterfly effect, this far exceeds our expectations.
People assume The Divine will physically intercept all evil doing, and Divinity does, given a chance (we as civilisation, have desire to cast Justice onto those that step into the Light and do not reflect it). Emotion is The Divine Language, 'Over/Alter Ego' likes to suppress this and deny it. This gets many, if not all of us in 'trouble'. I can't blame Divinity for the actions of misunderstanding 'Ego Freaks'.
I feel we attribute too much 'perfection' to God... Accidents do happen.
Reality is, perfect imperfection. Unique fragments or a 'Puzzle'.

There is so much Love in The Universe, it hurts.

I could be misreading what you are saying Animus27, I apologise if so.

Please feel free to rant, if you so desire, I am pleased to make your acquaintance.