Hi
Daisy, yes words can never say how we feel about loosing a loved one, i myself also have lost many loved ones, but really they haven't gone anywhere, they are always right where they always were, in our hearts. There is no such thing as death, yes the body dies but the true self, that is the Essence of who they were, can never die, its hard to realize this because we are so use of seeing them in their body, but try to see who your loving son was, feel the Essence of his true Being, this true Being is also your true Being, in fact you and your son are One, its just that in that Oneness, your son was expressing himself through the body that you knew him as. But still knowing this doesn't mean we can't grieve for them. Here is a song I wrote for all those who have lost a loved one, I give this song to you also, its called
I wish I could hold you one more time. Love Robert.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o-hCTfEOouY