Hello,
There is a concept of oneness which is greatly ignored. For we are truly one with all that we are. Your higher self is you as much as any lower aspect of your self. The conflicts we create between contrasting aspects of self are more of a problem than the contrasts them self.
I was involved in a healing once that kind represents this sort of thing.
http://www.telepathyacademy.net/foru...php?topic=73.0
What really makes us ill is the conflict itself, not the polarities. So by being kind towards all that you are, you effectivly heal your self.
John